What to do when a girl cries? Well, this is the answer :
1. You put your arms around her and let her have a good cry. Once she is calms down you can ask her what the trouble is or if you already know then try to make her laugh. That's about it! It's nice of you to be that concerned though. Good for you!
But if that only makes things worst (if you bring up why she`s crying), then just don`t talk about it and try to cheer her up.
2.Give her a quote like this one "A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out." Let her know your there.
This post is about Why Girls Cry. For you guys you should know the reason~~~
A girl wont cry easily,
Except in front of the person who she love the most, she becomes weak.
A girl wont cry easily, only when she love you the most, she put down her ego.
Guys, if a girl cries bcoz of you, please hold her hands firmly, she's the one who would stay with you for the rest of your life.
Guys, if a girl cries bcoz of you, please don`t give her up, maybe bcoz of your decision, you ruin her life.
When she cries rite infront of you,
When she cries bcoz of you,
Look into her eyes,
Can u see n feel the pain n hurt she's feeling?
Think.
Which other girl have cried wif pure sincerity,
In front of you,
And bcoz of you?
She cries not because she is weak,
She cries not bcoz she wan sympathy or pity,
She cries,
Because crying silently is no longer possible,
the pain,hurt,n agony have become too big a
burden to be kept inside.
Guys,
Think about it,
If a girl cries her heart out to you,
And all because of you,
Its time to look back on wat u have done,
Only you will know the answer to it.
Do consider it,
Coz one day,
It may be too late for regrets,
It may be too late to say "im sorry".
To my friends...
Ponder this message seriously.
Don`t do this to a girl,
You may regret for the rest of your life.
Maybe in your life, she's the only one that love YOU the most.
Remember this lesson..
Almost every girl dreams of their perfect boyfriend. Though no one can be perfect, we can sure strive to be. In this guide, I will teach you some simple tips and tricks to become one step closer to being that perfect boyfriend.
1. Keep your word. Women believe this is one of the most important aspects of a man. Do what you say and say what you do. Don't lie about things. Let her love you for who you are, not for who you're not.
Things You'll Need:
A kind heart
Patience
Confidence
An open mind
2. Be a Gentlement! Open the door for her, hold her hand, pull her chair back for her, etc. Women love to be respected. Treat her with the same amount of respect as you would your older sister. Be careful with your words as well. People do not like to be forced to do anything. So don't try to control her as well.
3. Surprise her. Sending roses to her work place, prepare a surprise picnic, take her out but keep her eyes closed the entire trip, etc. Be creative. Women love to be surprised and be taken on an adventure. Be cautious with this, use this only in moderation. Too much of a good thing will get old.
4.Listen. Sometimes she will rant about her life and what not. Just sit there and listen. Sometimes she may not even ask for feedback. If she feels you're a good listener, she will only have more reasons to appreciate you. When she does ask for feedback, try your best to give quality feedback. Remember, a healthy relationship is one that allows both individuals to constantly grow.
5. Communicate. Talk to her about her interest as well as yours. Learn to say what you feel and help her understand you as well. Let her help you through your problems as well. This is a relationship and every relationship needs two people. These are opportunities to strengthen your relationship so don't pass them by!
6. Space. Everyone needs space. As I said, too much of a good thing is bad. Moderation. Do not spend every waking moment together. This is a one way ticket to "problemsville". Make her cherish your time together. If you guys constantly spend time together, you will both begin to take each other for granted. No one wants that.
7. Be willing to compromise. This is the most important part of any relationship. Learn to put away your pride. Do not run away from arguments. Arguments can be a good thing if you can be open minded. Every obstacle your relationship gets passed will only make it stronger.
8. Read her. Women will expect you to be able to understand what they feel without actually telling you how they feel. Pay close attention to her and her habits. Write it down if you must. This general pattern will help you understand her and allow you to fully benefit from this relationship. Make sure you bring these things up as suggestions or questions. Have her clarify these things to you and make sure you're right on your assumptions. If it's wrong, just drop it.
9. Maintain a life. Remember, you still have a life. She is an important aspect of your life, but she is not your life. Don't forget to maintain family, friendships, jobs and any other important aspects of your life. Make time for her but don't forget about everything else. Relationships may not last forever so do not forget about the people that have always been there for you to begin with.
10. Be yourself. Don't try to be somebody you're not because at the end of the day, if they love you they will love you for who you are.
With just a few simple tips, you can be the perfect girlfriend - making him want to be the perfect boyfriend. Learn with VideoJug how to do all you need to, to be come the perfect girlfriend and look after your little caveman.
Step 1: Relax your standards
The perfect girlfriend is not a plastic doll. While you should endeavour to maintain your femininity, once in a while let your guard down: eat like a pig, slouch around, or leave the washing up. You can even surprise him be getting him to pull your finger. This way he will feel comfortable in your presence, and you in his.
Step 2: But make an effort
With this in mind, remember that it is important to make an effort and sometimes dress up special. We know it's not practical all the time, but he'll appreciate it, and you'll feel more attractive.
Step 3: Massage his ego
Remember that the male ego is as fragile as it was all those years ago when he first lost his way back to the cave. Make your boyfriend feel good about himself - even if he is getting in your way- let him be useful and tell him he's great. Don't nag him into submission, as there is nothing sexy about a downtrodden man.
You know the bed's not made properly, but congratulate him on having a go. You know that isn't an omelette, but it contains eggs doesn't it? So well done him!
Step 4: Feed him
Like it or not, the old adage is true - the way to a man's heart is through his stomach. You don't have to cook, but keep your local takeaway on speed dial. Remember if your boyfriend is hungry, his attention will shift suddenly from you to the fridge. Don't take it personally, it's primal. Symptoms of hunger to look out for include: grumpiness, slightly flared nostrils or he may appear to be hunting. If he gets like this, don't suggest salad.
Step 5: Give him space
A man's friends are important to him, and so is his ability to spend time with them, where he will do male activities like growling, fighting and measuring things, simple pursuits that confuse a complex female mind. Allow him the space to maintain these relationships. Let him roam, and when he comes home he'll be ready to spend quality time with you.
In long-term relationships, it's easy to settle into a routine with your partner that, while may be comfortable, can make your sex life a tad mundane. However, by shaking it up and using these sex tips, you can revive the spark that first brought you two together. Here are a few ideas to consider.
Sex Tip 1: Keep it pretty
First things first, it's impossible to have great sex if you don't feel sexy, so treat yourself to a blowout or some new lingerie, whatever is needed to put the "va-va-voom" back into your step.
Sex Tip 2: Flirt with each other
Make a habit of sending playful, sexy messages to him throughout the day. Make him salivate with anticipation by telling him what you're wearing and what you want to do to him later.
Sex Tip 3: Set the mood
Don't underestimate the power of lighting a few candles. Make sure your bedroom is sexy and doesn't have toys littering it. And turn off the tv!
Sex Tip 4: Just kiss
Agree to place a ban on sex for a certain length of time and just kiss and focus on foreplay. Abstaining from sex has the added benefit of charging up both of your libidos.
tips buat para cewek (ini khusus ce lo.... yang cowok gak boleh ikutan)
1. TEMUKAN DAYA PIKAT ALAMIAH DIRI
daya pikat alamiah ce lebih condong ke urusan fisik? mungkin betul juga, karena bahkan banyak ce lebih menomorsatukan urusan fisik ketimbang urusan lainnya. mereka sadar, daya pikat fisik mereka terbatas waktunya.tapi seberapa pentingnya sih soal fisik ini? koq banyak ce yg kadang minder, dan mundur dari persaingan cinta hanya gara-gara lawannya dirasakan jauh lebih menarik? girls, cantik itu hanya sebuah ilusi pikiran dan hati. tanya deh, ke co-co. kriteria cantik menurut mereka itu seperti apa. pasti jawabannya beda-beda. itu berarti kecantikan adalah produk imajinasi manusia.
kalo lo berpikir diri lo kurang atau ga menarik, maka itu berarti bener. lo emang ga menarik.bahayanya, lo bisa menjadi ce yg sangat sensitif. apalagi kalo diusik soal fisik. dan ce macam begini ini yg justru patut dikasihani, karena ketimbang berusaha mempercantik diri, menonjolkan kelebihan yg mereka miliki, mereka justru sibuk menutupi kekurangan yg mereka miliki.dan sebetulnya dari persoalan fisik inilah inner beauty seorang ce bisa terpancar. rata-rata ce yg memiliki aura inner beauty yg tinggi biasanya dah ga mempersoalkan soal fisik lagi. perawatan diri bagi mereka adalah suatu rutinitas biasa. efeknya, mereka bisa tampil menarik lebih lama.
jadi mulai sekarang, sebaiknya jangan pikirin soal fisik. kalo sulit, berusahalah temukan bagian mana yg menarik dari diri lo. pasti ada. tiap orang dilahirkan dengan kelebihan masing-masing. rawat baik-baik dan tunjukkan kelebihan lo itu. padukan itu dengan bakat dan kemampuan yg lo punya ditambah rasa percaya diri. hasilnya? inner beauty lo bakal meningkat tajam.dan jangan pernah lupa untuk tersenyum. senyum membuat kecantikan seorang ce meningkat 4 x lipat dari semula.
2. MANJA
salah satu senjata ampuh ce untuk meluluhkan hati co selain tangisan. tapi sikap manja mempunyai kelebihan, karena lebih menantang co untuk merespons balik.dibalik sikap manjanya ce, tersirat permintaan untuk lebih diperhatikan, disayang dan dilindungi.hati co yg kaya gimana juga pasti luluh. ga percaya? buktikan sendiri! tapi sama co lo sendiri yee, jangan sama co-nya temen .. itu sih pecicilan namanya .. ::hhh::
3. JINAK-JINAK MERPATI
cara psikologis yg sangat jitu buat menarik perhatian co! dari pihak ce-nya terkesan ga terlalu 'mengumbar', tapi sekaligus memberi peluang si co untuk mendekati dirinya. banyak co yg bisa jatuh hati sama ce jinak-jinak merpati ini. karena satu hal. memberi tantangan!tapi hati-hati. salah penerapan, co-nya bisa kabur.gue dulu pernah. suka ke ce, berniat pdkt, tapi keliatannya itu ce dah langsung jaga jarak, dan memposisikan dirinya lebih suka bersahabat. jelas aja gue mundur. ga enak, ntar kalo gue terusin marah lagi ce-nya. gawat, bisa merusak persahabatan.ga taunya lama kemudian gue baru tau, kalo itu ce sebetulnya bisa aja memberikan kesempatan bagi gue untuk 'masuk'.
yah .. mana gue bisa ngerti, kalo sikapnya justru sebaliknya, seakan-akan menutup peluang gue buat masuk? malah gue mikirnya waktu itu dah ada co laen yg dia suka. jadi .. ya sudahlah ..mungkin ada yg ngetawain, bilang "payah .. koq gitu aja mundur". HEY! I'M A LOVER! NOT A FIGHTER! gue sih simpel. suka ama ce, pdkt, kalo kayanya dia ga minat ya udah. ga gue terusin. buang-buang waktu aja. ce masih banyak koq. buat apa menghabiskan waktu buat sesuatu yg ga pasti? lagian, yg penting dalam sebuah hubungan adalah bagaimana menjalaninya. bukan pas pdkt-nya aja seru tapi pas dah jadian hambar. makanya .. jangan salah penerapannya ya. ingat, kasih peluang. dikit aja. jangan malah menutup peluangnya. ntar kabur nyesel lo .. ;)
4. KENALI TIPE CO KHUSUS
ada beberapa tipe co yg kurang bisa ditarik perhatiannya dengan menggunakan cara jinak-jinak merpati diatas.
