Sunday, 26 June 2011

Did She Reject You? Get Effective Tactics Which Will Make Her Feel Rejected

Why did she reject me? If you are boggling your self, your household or your friends with this question, then you definitely haven’t gotten over that rejection. Obtaining a huge, flat “NO” through the girl that you have already been fantasizing about is difficult to simply accept particularly should you know that you are way better than most guys. Nonetheless, becoming the greater guy isn’t the one gauge in case you will probably be accepted or not. Actually, even the largest fishes within the pond are not exempted from rejection.

Did you analyze why your first potential girlfriend reject you? Well there are some common mistakes that men make with women and do not realize them. I will tell you how to deal with women and avoid those mistakes to have the best woman in your arms.
When a girl rejects a guy, he may start pleading with her, or chase her and try to convince her that he is the best man she can ever have. but who are you to decide if you are the best? Accept the fact that convincing her that you really love her and will keep her happy will not make her feel attracted towards you. By telling her a few nice words, she will not start feeling what she hasn’t felt for you till date. So don’t waste time in chasing her, it will make her run away from you.

It is a proven fact that women like men who do not treat them well initially or say who do not give them much attention. Ever wondered why a girl pays less attention to you when you keep calling her, meeting her, listening to her or doing whatever she says? Now do the opposite and see how she comes to you running.

You don’t have to be very nice with girls because they do not accept or reject guys on the basis of how nice they are. If you have noticed, attractive girls seem to like jerks who are not that good looking instead of good, nice guys. They will like any guy for whom they feel some level of attraction, even if he is not a handsome hunk. It is a natural feeling in girls that makes them attracted to guys. So being nice to girls will not solve your purpose, she will not start feeling attracted towards you.

Many guys try to make their girls happy by seeking their approval in every small deal or work. Initially your girl may like this because it will make her feel important. Later on she will start feeling that you
lack self-confidence and you need permission and approvals to begin any task or finish up a small thing.

Here you will get negative points. As I said earlier also, girls do not like guys being very nice with them. You don’t have to treat her badly but you also don’t need to be extra nice with her. Be a man and do whatever you want to do without asking her. This also means that if you want to kiss her, just go ahead. Don’t wait for her to nod her head to say ‘yes you may kiss me.’

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The most common mistake almost all men do are buying gifts and flowers for a girl. When you do this again and again, girls get a signal: “It’s not easy for me to impress you. So let me try by bribing you a little. May be you will start liking me.” Okay girls love getting flowers and gifts but this will not change how she feels for you. Imagine yourself getting gifts and flowers from a girl whom you can’t even stand.

Would you accept her offer of dating her just because she brings nice gifts and flowers for you? So if you can’t do this, how do you expect girls to change their feelings in exchange for gifts and flowers? You need to show the girl that if she wants to accept you, she must accept you the way you are and you are not going to change your ways for her. This attitude will make her like you and meet you again and again.

Look into the mirror and tell yourself – “I will make girls run after me. I have the attitude to do so.” When you say this to yourself, also follow it by keeping it in mind all the time. Why I am saying this
because when men see attractive women, they can’t control themselves.

When you meet an attractive woman and start dating her, you must realize that before you, she must have dated other men also. She is so beautiful that men must be writing her letters, mails, text messages, expressing their love for her. And this is the biggest mistake men make when they express their feelings too early to a woman. This puts her off and she drops the idea of a relationship with such a man. So remember to give her compliments but
do not say how you feel for her too early in a relationship. Make her fall for you and then express your feelings for her.

Desperation is never attractive to women. She may be hot, easily approachable but if you show your desperation to get in bed with her, she will reject you instantly. Also when you are talking to her, remember not to look at her cleavage or breast. Look into her eyes to make her feel that you like her.

There are men who before even approaching a woman get nervous because of their looks and money power. Well I must clear this point that women do not think like men. They do not get attracted to men by just looking at them. If you need to impress her, you need to talk to her. If she likes your company, your sense of humour, she may well give you a chance to be her partner. Few women do give importance to looks but it still remains secondary to the overall personality of a man.

Never let a woman decide what you want to do, where you want to go or what should be the next step.

Women always want men to show their manliness when taking important decisions. A nice woman would always want to feel safe and protected when with her man. In such a situation if you ask her
what you must do next, how is she going to rely on you for her safety, security, happiness and future endeavors?

Last but not the least, men must know how to behave in different situations. This is very important. If you keep guessing before her about your next move, she is going to get disappointed.

Women almost always know what is on your mind. Your body language says it all. So you must not try to hide your feelings. If you feel like kissing her, she will know it and then if you don’t kiss her, she will find you weird.

So act accordingly in different situations. And please do not act like college guys by conveying messages to her through her friends or your friends. Be bold enough to speak to her either face to face or over the phone.

Hope you do not get rejected by a girl next time. These tips will surely help you in being with a girl for a long long time. All the Best!
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Is He Cheating on You?

Relationships are truly remarkable and enjoyable when both parties involved are committed and faithful to each other. It could then be a source of joy and a bond not easily broken is usually formed as the relationship is based solely on absolute trust for each other. Although most of us desire absolute faithfulness from our sweethearts, the reverse often is the case. How would you know your partner is cheating on you? So here is a list of the signs of a secret master cheater:

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1. He comes home smelling like shampoo and soap.
He’s been out for most of the day or so he says, but he comes back smelling like he has just got out of the shower. We don’t need to explain what he’s really been doing do we!

2. He daydreams more than he previously did.
All of a sudden mister secret man starts day dreaming his mind always seems to be elsewhere.

3. He deletes all text messages and incoming/outgoing calls from his phone.
This is the obvious one as nobody has time to delete message s form their phone for no reason.

4. He does things to pick fights with you so he spends time away from you.
This is a cunning plan so he can be spending more time with the other bitch!! (oops sorry did I say that??)

5. He doesn’t seem to have as much money as he once did.
If your man is out dating other women, trust me, at the early stages he is spending cash in the process.

6. He doesn’t want any girl related stuff in his vehicle or flat.
If you are use to leaving belongings in his property then all of a sudden he is cleaning up your belonging from view then alarm bells should be ringing.

7. He has bruises or scratches on his body.
Don’t go jumping to conclusion because of a scratch on his body but take note of where they are. The buttocks, the back and the shoulders blades should be of concern.

8. He is overly preoccupied with his hair and skin.
Its OK for men to take care of themselves, but when he wasn’t before and now he is who is he doing it for?

9. He is taking trips and going out more than he previously did and you are not invited to go along.
OK no one is saying your man is not allowed to go out without you but if he use to invite you along, now it seems like he cant wait to go out and your not invited like previously then….you get the message. 

10. He is uninterested or too busy/tired for sex.
When your man is getting it from elsewhere he will no longer feel to have sex with you so he will make up excuses.

11. He runs a short errand and it takes him hours to return home.
He keeps saying he’s just chilling over at his friends or on a quick errand but takes all night or hours away

12 He shows a sudden new interest in different types activities, films, food or music.
A good sign that someone new is in his life, is the sudden interest of things that he would never normally be interested in.

13. He suddenly has an interest in improving his physique and/or he joins a gym.
A man in the gym who is not connected to a sport is a man that looks after himself and will want to flaunt the results to the opposite sex.

14 You discover he has an email or facebook account you never knew about.
Watch out for this one ladies, the easiest way for connecting with the opposite sex is online and its growing.
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Sunday, 19 June 2011

Tips for Celebrate Father's Day

Eight Tips for Celebrate Father's Day :

1. Consider building the celebration around an activity you all can enjoy. Some ideas include:

  •  Having a family picnic
  • Enjoying a family barbecue
  • Taking dad to a favorite sporting event
  • Go fishing together
  • Go plane spotting or train spotting together
  • Play golf together.

2. Make it a family event. Father's Day is by nature a family event. Use this opportunity to get everyone in the family together for a fun day. Think about including all the dads in your family, not just your own father. Could your celebration include husbands, would-be future dads, your uncles, and brothers? If so, do it—the more the merrier! And don't forget step-fathers—they're important too. You don't have to remain at home; you could go to the beach, a local park, a favorite spot of dad's!

3. Help dad to enjoy the day. Perhaps you'll let him sleep in this morning, or perhaps you won't badger him to be somewhere on time, for a change. Whatever it is, let it be his day. Some nice ways to start it include:
  • Having a family picnic
  • Enjoying a family barbecue
  • Taking dad to a favorite sporting event
  • Go fishing together
  • Go plane spotting or train spotting together
  • Play golf together.

4. Be creative. When it comes to making gifts for Father's Day, perhaps steer clear of the traditional store-bought gifts of tie and socks. He's probably still got last year's socks stuffed at the back of the drawer. Expensive or typical gifts are not necessary, but the time and effort you put in to create a personalized tribute, will be deeply appreciated. Instead, let your own creative abilities shine and make him something special:

  • Bake a cake
  • Make his favorite dinner
  • Make a gift basket and fill it with homemade candies, cookies, crossword or other puzzles you've created yourself, hand-crafted woodwork objects, etc.
  • If you're artistically inclined, draw or paint a portrait of your dad from a favorite photo or from memory
  • Write a poem
  • Write a song and perform it.

5. Celebrate your shared experiences. Look at old photos of you and your dad doing fun things together. Take a walk down memory lane by creating either a photo album or a photo slideshow. You may be surprised at how many things you both have forgotten about and how much they mean to you.
  • Especially if he doesn't talk much about his life, consider recording his voice or taking notes as you talk about old times or old photographs. Make his words and memories part of the family history.
6. Acknowledge the importance of fatherhood. Being a father is a tough job. Dads are responsible for at least one half of the financial and emotional well-being of the family. A thoughtful card, a letter, or short speech that expresses your love will benefit both you and your dad. Giving dad a heartfelt speech, toast, or card of genuine, loving words at the dinner table, or at some other point when all the family are around (siblings especially), will make this a poignant occasion. Here are some ways to prepare:
  • Make a handmade card
  • Write a letter
  • Write a speech or prepare a toast
  • Have all of your siblings explain why dad matters to them.

7. Make the day joyful. The most important aspect of the day is that you are present and attentive. It does not take material presents to make a dad happy—it takes showing your love, and reassuring your dad that you're proud of him and all he's done for you. For many fathers, the most rewarding part of being a father is feeling that your children love you, and the knowledge that each child is on a path to a successful future, no matter what age, coping well with the problems that life inevitably throws at us all.

8. End his "Fun-filled day" by telling your father you love him. Don't forget his hug and kiss!

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Hey ladies this is a nice quick post to help you if you get stuck writing messages to your loved one like me. For this special occasion Father’s day will be on sunday 19th July so here are some message ideas to put into your card to show your dad how you feel and also make him feel special on this day.
1. I am indeed blessed to have
Someone like you as my father
On this special day
I‘d like to thank you for everything you have done for me.
Happy Fathers Day

2. Some things are
just better the
way they are
like you!
Happy Father’s Day!

3. Today, like many other days, brings warmest thoughts of you,
and all the ways you brighten life for others all year through.
Hope that happiness and love will fill your Fathers Day.
Happy Fathers Day Dad!

4. You’ve seen me laugh
You’ve seen me cry
And always you were there with me
I may not have always said it
But thanks, I love you
Happy Father’s Day

5. Dad you are never wrong
The only time you are wrong
is when you think,
I forgot about you.
Love you Dad!
Have a grand Father’s Day!

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Hoped you liked the quick post, please do let us know what your message would be to your dad or any ideas of what someone could say to their dad on this special day.

Saturday, 18 June 2011

Love Messages Ideas To Send Your Loved One

Its so sweet when you get little love message hanging around the house for you, or sweet love letters with roses or even an i love you message in a text. Love messages are a great way to convey your feelings in a sweet, heartfelt, or playful way.

Here are some very touching love messages that you can use for your loved one.

I love my life because it gave me you, I love you because you are my life.

A candle may melt and its fire may die, but the love you have given me will always stay as a flame in my heart.

A kiss is as drinking salty water: you drink and your thirst will increase.

Feelings are many but words are few, clouds are dark but sky is blue; Luv is a paper, life is glue, every thing is false, only My Luv is true.

Another month, another year, another smile, another tear, another winter, another summer too, never want to spend any of them without you.

Love is life. And if you miss love, you miss life.

Kiss me and u will see stars; Love me and I will give them to u.

You are like the sunshine so warm, you are like sugar, so sweet…you are like you…and that’s the reason why I love you!

If kisses were the water I would give you the sea, if hugs were the leaves I would give you a tree, but if love was time, I would give you eternity.
Before I met you I never knew what it was like; to look at someone and smile for no reason.

Meeting you was fate, becoming your friend was a choice but falling in love with you I had no control over.

You can never stop loving someone, u just learn to live without them.

It’s been said that you only truly fall in love once, but I don’t believe it. Every time I see you, I fall in love all over again

If you can spend an hour in my mind, a minute in my heart, a second in my soul, you’ll know how much love I have for you.

There are 12 months a year…30 days a month…7 days a week…24 hours a day…60 minutes an hour…but only one like you in a lifetime.

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If, out of time, I could pick one moment and keep it shining, always new, of all the days that I have lived, I’d pick the moment I met you.

There’s a love that only you can give, a smile that only your lips can show, a twinkle that can only be seen in your eyes, and a life of mine that you alone can complete.

There are 4 steps to happiness: 1. you, 2. me, 3. our hearts, 4. together!

If love can be avoided simply by closing our eyes, I wouldn’t blink at all for I don’t want to let a second pass having fallen out of love with you.

If you were a wound inside my heart, I’d rather leave it there with all the pain locked inside than leave it without a trace of you.

In true love the smallest distance is too great, and the greatest distance can be bridged.

I hoped you likes these sweet love messages, if you have any great love messages that you would like to share feel free to comment!

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Sunday, 12 June 2011


A lot of people these days experience a long distance relationship at some point in their life. Most of us have failed to maintain one and believe that others will suffer the same fate. Why is that so? The reason being is that we start the relationship as if it was like any other and then we come into problems. But what are the common reasons to break up in those long distance relationships and how can you make them work? Below are 10 tips that could make your relationship work.

1. Be honest right from the beginning and ask all the questions to make sure you are both clear on the situation of the relationship. Setting some guide lines such as naming your relationship (dating, seeing each other, boyfriend-girlfriend, engaged sex buddy etc ) as well as letting each other know how exclusive it is (limited to one person,) or non-exclusive. These can be difficult and awkward questions to ask, but will save you great heartache and misunderstanding down the line.

2. Communicate in some way as much as possible. Since you won’t be seeing each other, it’s important to establish and maintain an emotional connection. These don’t always have to be long, in-depth conversations. Quick ‘how are you doing’ or ‘i miss you messages’ create bonds. Tell each other about your little triumphs and tragedies. Ask for advice. Use an instant messenger program on your phones or use web cams for that visual connection. E-mail is great so make sure you use it when you can. Write love letters. Send each other small gifts, cards, for no reason. In this case, quantity is as important as quality. Don’t take communication for granted!

3.Being fare away from your boo can be a bit of an experience but take advantage of the benefits a long distance relationship offers. You’ll have more time with friends and/or family, no arguments over toothpaste caps and the best bit is the pleasure of seeing your sweetheart again. Also most important, being far apart gives you a chance to maintain your individuality and you can progress at studying or on a new job or business, something that can get lost in the mist when couples spend all their free time together.
4.Talk about your future together. Doesn’t have to be marriage, but you can talk about going on holiday, going into business, see yourself with each other doing things inspiring in the future that makes you want to see it one day. Discussing how you’re going to get to that point will help you prove to each other that the relationship is going somewhere and that your efforts and frustrations are not in vain.
5. Pursue common interests, even if it means pursuing them apart. If there’s a film in the cinema you’re both interested in seeing, watch it individually and then call each other afterwards and talk about it. Read a certain book, magazines or online videos at the same time. Set your watches to go off at the same time every day, Stare at the moon whilst your on the phone and if its dark where your partner is get them to look at the moon too. It may sound cheesy but both of you looking at the moon at the same time will connect you. Another is to synchronize your alarm with that of your partner. Make it a point to think of each other when your watch or mobile goes off and revel in the fact that he or she is thinking about you, too.

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6. You must try and avoid jealousy and be trusting. One of the easiest ways to destroy a healthy relationship is to mess it up with jealousy. When you start a long distance relationship, you must be realistic of the difficulties ahead. It always helps if you go into a relationship with the idea that everyone is innocent and worthy of trust, until proven otherwise. Don’t fall in the trap of questioning and interrogating your partner every time he decides to go out for a drink with people you haven’t met or doesn’t get back to you right away when you called and left a message. You must remember your partner will naturally have a social life where he lives and so should you. Of course it helps to have your eyes open and not be totally naive, but being overly suspicious is unhealthy for you and your relationship too.

7 Signs He’s About to Propose

Is your guy acting a little…different? It could be a sign of bright bling to come. His apartment is clean, he’s saving money, and Thursday night poker with the guys has turned into date night with you? Either your guy is coming down with something, or he’s planning to pop the question. Read on for more telltale signs that he’s ready to say “I do.”

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He’s Growing out of His Bachelor Ways
You can tell his bachelor days are behind him when his number-one priority is no longer himself. If he’s constantly using terms like “we” and “our,” and plans for a weekend with the guys in Vegas are suddenly on the back burner while weekend picnics with you are becoming more common, he’s probably not just sick of his buddies. He might’ve realized that he prefers a more settled lifestyle, and this transition puts him squarely on the path to proposing.

He’s Redecorating
You may also notice certain items have disappeared from his pad, like his college posters and Star Wars memorabilia. Did he ditch that ugly brown chair for a nice new couch? It could be the start of major changes — your boyfriend is making room in his life for you, both physically and emotionally.

He’s Curbing Big Purchases
Has your boyfriend gone from big spender to Scrooge? The plasma-screen TV he’d been planning to buy isn’t hanging over his mantel, and instead of buying rounds of drinks at happy hour after work, he’s home cooking dinner. No, he’s not training for Top Chef; he’s started to eliminate frivolous spending to brace for a large down payment (on your engagement ring). And it’s not just the jewelry he’s saving for — he may be putting away money now so that the two of you will be comfortable well into the future. 

He’s Not Complaining About Weddings
While at a wedding together, it’s more than just the usual eagerness for an open bar. He’s not cracking jokes during the vow exchange — he’s commenting on the couple’s first-dance song choice and the meal selection. Take it as a sign that he’s paying attention to all things wedding-related because matrimony is on his mind. 

He’s Taken an Interest in Your Jewelry
Has he been complimenting your great ability to accessorize? Snooping around in your jewelry box? Holding your hand, constantly? All kidding aside, when your favorite ring goes missing, you’ll know for sure that he’s trying to find a covert way to figure out your size. 

He Wants to Meet the Parents
Okay, so he’s probably already met your parents. If he hasn’t and has become insistent on meeting them, it’s probably for a good reason. But if he already knows them well and has become the first to RSVP for your nephew’s birthday party, jumps at the chance for a weekend visit with your parents, or, even more telling, tries to plan outings for both your families to hang out together, he’s ready for the next step.
He’s Acting out of Character
You know his daily routine inside and out, and any variation is enough to give you pause. If he’s super-insistent that you guys do something you never do (like take a walk through a park or drive to a place to watch the sunset), he may be setting you up to speak those four little words: “Will you marry me?” After all that hard work, be sure to make it easy on him and say yes!

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5 Signs You May Not Be His One And Only

Infidelity is unbelievably common these days. It also requires a lot of energy and attention to detail but ultimately leaves somebody hurt and the process leads many to deeper problems. If your having doubts that your man is being unfaithful and his behaviour is not what you are used to, pay attention. Here are a few signs that you may not be his one and only.

1. Not being clear with where and with who.
If your man is always vague about the places and people he is with, most you don’t know about and when you ask him he still not clear about it, then alarm bells should start to ring.
You will notice he hardly ever gives names of people or places that he is hanging out. Now its always ‘going up central with the guys’ and ‘ went for a drink with work colleagues’

2. He starts to become Secretive.
When somebody is playing away they will start to be secretive about their cheating ways so you will not find out. Look for signs such as his mobile being switched off or if he frequently refuses to answer it. He never volunteers to tell you how his day went and when you ask he answers with one word answers.
He always has his phone near him, now its on lock. When on the computer he is quick to clear desktop and email as if somebody could be watching him i.e You!

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3. Distant with you
A new relationship can be exciting so when your boyfriends comes back from a secret date with a new girl he tends to be bored with the existing relationship with you. His mind always seems to be pondering on things, conversation with you he is not fully engaged and his body language is quite restless. Chances are he’s thinking where/who else he may want to be with.

4. Lack of intimacy
Public displays of affection are now becoming a problem, cuddles, pecks on the lips, playful touching of the hair (all initiated by you) are replaced with brisk pull aways and the lack of striking up a decent conversation any more is hard for him. These are signs that something is not right!!
5. Defensive arguments
You start questioning little things like him working late so often or coming to bed in the early hours of the morning and he goes into one about why you want to know everything. You have the right to ask if you feel something is not right but he goes into overdrive with the arguments when you do. This tells you he has something to hide.

Its never good when you suspect that your man could be playing around and all you want is that reassurance that everything is all good. After all if your man suspected you im sure he would pull you up about it in a shot. But Remember ladies don’t jump to conclusions just yet, there could be a perfect explanation to his sudden change in character but its your job to find out why this is. Being cheating on in a relationship and ending it is a very hurtful feeling and can take time to heal, but knowing or having an idea he is cheating and doing nothing about it will eat you up inside making you bitter and stressed and you don’t want that.
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13 Signs You're Falling in Love

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13. You cant stay mad at him or her for more than a minute or two. You actually have to try hard to stay mad.

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12. You will read his or her IMs over and over and over again.

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11. You'll walk really really slow while your with him or her.

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10. You'l feel shy whenever your with him or her.

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9. While thinking about him or her, your heart will be faster and faster.

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8. By listening to his or her voice, you smile for no reason.

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7. While looking at him or her, you cant see any other people around you.. only that one person.

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6. You'll start istening to slow songs.

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5. He or she will become all you think about.

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4. You'll get high just by their smell.

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3. You'll realize you're always smiling to yourself when you think of them.

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2. You'll do anything for him or her.

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1. While reading this there was one person on your mind the whole time<3

now, you dont need to do anything with this, but it made you think. when you tell someone "i love you" do you really mean it? think about it..

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In the beginning of any relationship, there is a lot of nervousness and anticipation. We say ” does he like me, does he love me or worse is he using me?’ He might like you or he might not, he may just be into you for sex. Either way you will be wondering what side of the hedge are you on. When a man falls in love, its much sweeter and now you can really enjoy him and once you know what signs to look for, you’ll know if you’ve got him hooked.

Before we get into whether or not he’s madly in love with you, let’s consider one thing, if he is how would you know? One thing about guys is they are the masters of hiding their love as they fear it will show their vulnerable side. So lets look at 7 give away signs that lead us to believe he’s madly head over heals with you.

When a man you love just seems to be around you all the time, there’s a good chance he’s got that feeling. Yeah he loves me!! Let’s face it, he wouldn’t go out of his way to spend every waking hour with someone he finds annoying. You wouldn’t spend that much time with someone if you just wanted them for a booty call either.


If you know he has important stuff going on, but he will cancel , move meetings or yet still makes time for you, he’s showing signs he is in love. When you take priority over work or the hobbies he’s obsessed with or his family or whatever, you’re in the ” i’ve got a man whose in love with me club’ (feels good)

Any time he makes plans and you’re in them is a great way to tell if he loves you. If the event is months or even years away, even better. It shows that he considers you part of his future. When your man says ” in three years we will go buy that house the you know its on!!! If not, it usually means he’s wondering if he’ll be with you for that long.


Love struck men can’t hide the signs he is in love. You know that large, tears-eyed stare showing he’s about to cry coz he loves you so much. OK, ok slight exaggeration sometimes it’s not that obvious, but he will look at you differently once he’s convinced himself you’re the one.


What happens in his mind the moment he realizes he loves you is, “ i want to show her, i want to buy for her, i want to surprise her” An artistic man will make great art for you. A musician will write a soppy song for you. An athlete will score a goal after staring at you in the stands. For everyone else, it comes as a gift of some kind. It may even come as a trip to Nandos lol but what ever it is a guys will want to do something for you to make you happy.

Now is not the time to sit back and get lazy and relax that you’ve snagged a love one! Never stop making yourself a better, a sexy person or a loving person. Just because you have a guy making puppy dog eyes at you and he’s all yours doesn’t mean you lay back and just enjoy.Try hard to become even more the girl he fell in love with, be more of what he likes , your man wont be able to get enough of you and one of the main things is that he still finds you attractive and loves sneaking in a long love making session or quickie but remember this is two way traffic, try your best to keep that fire burning.

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If he starts talking about this, then girl you may as well start choosing your wedding dress now lol. The one thing guys will not openly talk about is starting a family if he wasn’t serious about you. so if you are already chit chatting about little pit patter feet then girl congrats your man is in love with you!!!

Friday, 10 June 2011

14 Tips To An Incredible Life

So what do you dream about doing with your life? This is your time, your chance at being someone who can make a difference and be brilliant. Your time to love hard, work hard, play harder and kick your high heels up, create some magic, and change lives. Your time to make someone smile and laugh. You can be fun, you can be sexy, you can be you and dance naked in the sun (just make sure no one else is around lol)

Nobody on this planet is perfect so stop trying to be. You don’t have to be right. You just have to be you. That is exactly how we are just being us.
So here are 14 tips to help you lead an extraordinary life by embracing YOU in all your glory. Get ready to glow sunshine!

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1. Practice acceptance for yourself as you are and the best of you.

2. Stop trying to be everything to please everyone.

3. Laugh and smile as much as possible.

4. Balance your input into your mind by reading, watching, learning along with your out-put to creating, giving and inspiring.

5. Really take care of your body: eat healthy, exercise, don’t smoke, eat less, move more, sleep 8 hours, learn to listen to your inner signals.

6. Always celebrate your successes no matter how small. Celebrate others’ successes too don’t be a hater, be a congratulator ;p

7. Embrace your strengths and stop worrying about your weaknesses.

8. Always Tell the truth about yourself.

9. Set boundaries with your time, energy and money. Respect them.

10. Be colourful, its much more enlightening.

11. Create meaningful connections with things like faith, loves and friendships.

12. Ignore the haters. It’s your life, your legacy, your choice.

13. Share your story of your successes with the younger generation

14. Take your dreams very seriously and go for them.
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See Yourself As Others See You

It is quite possible to see yourself exactly as other people see you; however, this takes courage, and the development of some insight. So, if you dare, have a peek in the mirror.

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1. Understand that other people are your mirror. A simple concept, yet one that many people are either unwilling, or unable, to grasp. Summed up, it is simply that other people reflect you. Your emotions, your traits, and your feelings are reflected back at you from other people either through in-kind responses or through predictable reactions to the emotions or feelings that you're issuing. Perhaps even more surprising is the reality that the reflection is perfect, even if the "reflector" is almost invariably not. For example, you might feel condescension, irritability, or dismissive toward another person, which lowers your estimation of them and causes you to treat them less seriously; yet in doing so, you ignore the fact that they reflect your negative appraisal of them.
  • Intellectually "challenged" people can provide the highest quality "reflections" for others' behavior, while being personally oblivious that a "mirror" exists; this has to do with their lack of inhibition and their inability to dissemble. Such people more innately reflect the signals and body language you are "sending" them.
  • It is quite easy to go through your entire life, in many Western cultures at least, and never develop the innate skill of spotting yourself being reflected in other people; any development in this area will improve you self-insight and your relations with others.
  • This "mirror-gazing" skill is more developed of necessity in people of diminished means who need to learn quickly how to read people well in order to survive; however, just because you have never been hungry, left alone, or impoverished, does not mean you have to be clueless about yourself.
  • See that a big part of "seeing yourself" is recognizing that some little behavior of someone else's, witnessed by you, is in fact exactly what you look like when exhibiting that same behavior, and that your rationalization of it as "different from yourself" is what is incorrect about your interpretation.
2. Recognize that people say things to you, or about you, for a reason. While it can be easy (in fact it's human nature) to dismiss anything not felt to be relevant, or not seen to be complimentary, and to see it rather as a reflection of the person saying or commenting about things you're not comfortable with (to an extent it's about them but that's not the whole story), for the most part it probably has a grain of truth in it for you. Even if it is painful and your ego tempts you to reject it out of hand, be alert to this probability. It is less important that you identify with what may have been actually said here; rather, what matters is connecting it with the times that you say the same thing to another. It is perilously easy to con yourself into believing that "those times were different." They invariably aren't, or weren't.

3. Recognize that this person-to-person mirror is a two-way mirror. Just as people say things to or about you for various, possibly obscure but knowable reasons, recognize when you do the same thing. Examine why you may have said a certain thing; usually, this self-examination will occur after the fact. Don't be afraid to ask someone you trust to help you work through the reasoning; for example, if your best friend heard you, they almost surely already know why you said something and what personal motivations, quirks, and needs lie behind it. Asking your friend with open honesty and a willingness to reflect together can take a friendship to a whole new level. Asking another how our words and demeanor come across to another is not something we stop and do much but it is definitely a worthwhile activity to try

4. Consider that a person whom you detest is invariably your perfect mirror – they are just like you. While this may seem strange or even offensive to you, experience often bears it out. The reason is that we invariably overlook behaviors in ourselves that we can't tolerate in another. By allowing the other person to carry the burden of our own disliked inner quirks or weaknesses, we shield ourselves from having to meet our less likable aspects head on and choose instead to view the unlikable traits as the fault of the other person. Often we see this as insurmountable because we choose to believe that the other person is the one generating the unwanted behavior. However, this blinds us to realizing that we're just locking horns with traits we haven't yet learned to deal with well inside of ourselves.

5. Continue seeing yourself as others see you throughout life. This isn't a one-off exercise. It's something that will benefit you and your relationships for all time, and as such, it's essential that you continue to remain alert and willing to see yourself reflected in others around you. Once you have refined seeing yourself, exactly as others see you, by witnessing the reflections in and from others, you will find yourself more forgiving of others, more willing to reach out and pull people through awkward moments and difficult times because you see not only your own struggles but theirs too, all intertwined as one. And all this takes is constant self-examination, self-honesty, and a willingness to step outside yourself regularly.

6. Recognize the opportunities in a relationship challenged by your intense dislike of one another. While you may never learn to like each other, opportunities exist here for personal behavioral modification. Indeed, often the most rewarding of outcomes can result when you push yourself to cope with people whom you find challenge you in this respect because you ultimately learn to manage, if not learn to tolerate, a part of yourself that you didn't even want to face before. Experience dictates that even if you initially do not communicate any of your intentions to modify your own behavior to your mirror, being that they invariably feel the same about you as you do about them, they will eventually (usually, pretty quickly) notice that they aren't able to push your buttons. If you are using this experience for self-improvement, it will be clear that you aren't taking advantage of opportunities to push theirs. This is going to be noticed (and not just by your mirror), and credited to you as maturity; bonus points for having the courage to come clean with your mirror, and tell them about your insight into this matter, leading to future mutual progression. And even more kudos to you if you do this personal development in the public sphere; as it's no easy task, it impresses people to see such maturity and rest assured that anyone within earshot will be enthralled.

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Wednesday, 8 June 2011

3 Good And 3 Bad Weight Loss Tips

When it comes to losing weight it seems everyone claims to have the best tips for losing weight and often beg you to try them. Unfortunately most of these weight loss tips are nothing more then worthless advice that can do more harm then good. Below you will find three tips that work and are recommended and three tips that are bad advice and can actually hurt you and slow your progress!

Three BAD Weight loss Tips
1. Use laxatives
This is a dangerous way to drop weight. Although you do drop ponds fast from your frame it is all water weight and will come back quickly. You can also dehydrate yourself if you are not careful and there are serious medical problems that can develop from dehydration.

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2. Starve Yourself
Just because less food means less weight you should not take it to the extreme and try to starve yourself thin. While you may have a drop in weight within the first few days your metabolism will slow down to compensate for less calories. This means that once you start eating again you will gain the weight back quickly.

3. Avoid All Carbs
This commonly given tip is actually a dangerous one. Your body needs carbohydrates to function properly. The new fad of low carb diets works just like starving yourself does, by depraving your body of something it needs!

Three GOOD Weight Loss Tips :

1. Eat Right
Nothing is more important and will help you get to your goal weight faster then changing your diet. By eliminating excess sugars and fats and replacing those foods with lean meat, fruits and vegetables you will find it easier to drop the pounds.

2. Workout
Go to the gym and workout strenuously 3-4 times a week. Alternate what you do and what equipment you use to do it. A good routine usually alternates cardiovascular workouts with strength training workouts. This will help you develop your lean muscle mass and burn off excess fat.

3. Develop a Plan And Stick To It
You can not go head first into losing weight without a plan to follow and guide you. You can either sit down and develop your diet and exercise plan from scratch. Or you can buy a proven system or plan that will guide you along your journey. Whatever choice yo make you have to stick to the plan in order to see success. 
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Top 3 Secret Beauty Tips


1. Keeping hair, hands and material away from your face to prevent dirt, oil and bacteria from clogging your facial skin pores.

2. when going to bed have your head raised slightly by using a pillow to prevent extra fluids settling around your eyes making them puffy in the morning.

3. If you moisturize immediately after washing your face with soap or face wash. It will help keep in moisture and hydrate your skin and prevent wrinkles.

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Top Tips for Deal With a Broken Heart

It’s at time hard to come up with the best way to deal with a break up especially when you are still feeling raw. Rejection is painful and leads to frustrations, anger and a lot of anguish.
You need to know how to deal with these emotions within the first weeks after a break up. This ensures that you remain with your respect and dignity as you recover from the pain. This is good because life must go on and you can find another person to love when the pain is over.

Top Tips :

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1) Rest in the following weeks after the break up, you should only do what you feel is necessary. Don’t strain yourself because you are already mentally and emotionally strained. Give yourself time to recover from the loss and also mourn. During such a time, you will feel lonely, sad and hopeless. It’s normal.

2) Eat a healthy diet, get enough rest and do not quit your job or classes. You will feel tempted to sleep all day, but you must work to achieve your goals in life. Take good care of your personal appearance and know that you still have a life to live. This ensures that when the pain subsides, you still have your life in control and you can move on properly.

3) You should not forget that you can still live even without your partner. Try to remember things that you can do on your own and also your strengths. You can write some positive points about yourself on a piece of paper. This can be a good strategy to learn on how to get over a break up and a good reason keep yourself aware that you are still lovable.

4) You should avoid seeing your ex as much you can in order to rebuild sense of identity. This may not be easy, but it is possible. This has been recommended by many experts on how to deal with a break up. Separation will allow the two of you to think if you need to get together or part ways forever.

5) You need a friend or a relative to talk to when you are very lonely. This will help you stop thinking about ways to revenge against your ex. Doing some things will only land you in more trouble which will make your life even more sad. Avoid acting on crazy thoughts and talk to someone to calm down.

When you try to figure out how to deal with a break up, remember that you need enough time before moving on. Do things that you have always enjoyed doing before the break up and do not get into another relationship to forget your ex. This can put you into more problems.

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